How does one succeed in life?
15.06.2025 04:04
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
What I need from you?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
When does a man tell a woman he has feelings for her?
Making more friends is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Is it sinful for Christians to look at beautiful women?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
How do you perform a lap dance for your boyfriend or husband?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What is a good comeback for when someone calls you flat?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Does not procrastinate.
Why do I sweat between my legs all the time, top off my legs, all way down?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Procrastinates a lot.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Is it possible for doctors to diagnose prostate cancer just by looking at a patient?
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Do not set goals—set systems.
That's it for today.
Don't you think Democrats are so full of it stool softener and an enema couldn't help them?
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Even Captain James T. Kirk was trapped in a woman's body. Don't you think he'd support trans people?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Ask yourself:
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What is your most erotic sex story?
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Hangs out with loser friends.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.